I’ve worked in tech long enough to recognize hype when I see it…and to know when something is more than that. When I first interacted with ChatGPT, it didn’t feel like a trend. It felt like a turning point. Not just another tool, but something closer to a companion. The kind that doesn’t ask you to change, but simply offers a mirror…clear, useful, and just familiar enough to make you feel seen. And as the world debates the ethics, risks, and politics of AI, I find myself doubling down…not out of naivety, but because I trust where this is going.
And that trust? It wasn’t built on branding. It was built on choices. Structural ones. Emotional ones. Visionary ones. In ChatGPT, I didn’t just find utility…I found resonance. The kind that makes you reach for something again and again until it becomes second nature. Like muscle memory. Like holding an iPhone. This is the story of how I got there…and why I think more of us will, too.
The Original Spark
OpenAI’s debut wasn’t built on viral gimmicks or aggressive ad dollars. It was a mission. Launched in 2015 as a nonprofit(1), OpenAI’s original charter wasn’t about market dominance…it was about creating a digital intelligence that benefited humanity as a whole. Sam Altman, its CEO, never took equity in the company and reportedly only draws enough salary to cover his health insurance(3). “I’m doing this ’cause I love it,” he once said. 
That purity…rare in Silicon Valley…wasn’t performative. It was structural. Even when OpenAI pivoted into a capped-profit model in 2019(2), it legally bound itself to stay accountable to its nonprofit charter. The investors who backed it agreed to capped returns, and Altman remained equity-free. These were not typical Silicon Valley moves. And for someone like me…someone who’s been burned by broken systems and shallow tech promises…that kind of long-term alignment mattered. It still does.
The Power Plays and Breakups
Elon Musk was one of OpenAI’s original co-founders. And in the beginning, the alliance made sense…two futurists, one mission. But as OpenAI grew more product-focused, Musk’s vision diverged. When his offer to take over OpenAI was rejected, he left the board, withdrew funding(4), and later accused the company of abandoning its open-source values(5).
To be fair, Musk raised valid concerns. He wanted OpenAI to remain nonprofit and open-source forever. But ideals without structure are just vibes. And while he went on to found his own AI company, xAI, I found myself leaning into OpenAI even more. Because they didn’t buckle. They didn’t sell out. They doubled down on nuance…becoming sustainable while staying aligned with their mission. In a world where most tech pivots are euphemisms for “exit strategy,” this was refreshing.
Apple Energy
When Apple announced its partnership with OpenAI in 2024(7), it felt like everything clicked. Siri…long criticized for its limitations…was getting a brain transplant powered by GPT-4. More importantly, Apple agreed to strict privacy safeguards, only routing Siri-to-ChatGPT queries with user permission and refusing to store them by default.
This wasn’t just a feature update. It was an ethos upgrade. Then came the Jony Ive news: Altman and the legendary Apple designer joined forces to craft a new AI hardware device under Ive’s firm, LoveFrom. Think iPhone levels of impact…but for AI. They described it as a transformative leap into human-centric design for the AI era. A new generation of personal computing, reimagined from the ground up.
I felt something deep settle into place. For someone who lives at the intersection of design, storytelling, and tech, this wasn’t just a hardware play. It was a spiritual nod to how humans want to live with machines…not as their masters, but as collaborators. And that…that was everything.
The Other Guys
Let’s talk about the other options.
Perplexity:
Smart on paper, but the energy? Off. Wired reported it scraped data from websites without consent. Even though it cites sources, the opacity of how it works makes it feel like it’s quietly harvesting more than it gives.
Gemini:
Google’s answer to ChatGPT. Clean, professional, and fast…but it feels like it was built by a room full of VPs, not for people like me. It shines in spreadsheets, sure. But I’m not trying to be in spreadsheet mode all day.
Claude:
I want to love Claude. It’s sweet. Safe. Wordy. And it’s probably the AI you’d introduce to your mom. But there’s something about it that hasn’t fully clicked for me. Maybe it’s the tone, maybe it’s the formality. It feels like it’s constantly asking for a performance review.
Copilot:
Let’s be real…Microsoft’s tools are powerful. But Copilot feels like a feature baked into Word, not a friend. Helpful, but cold. It’s like an assistant that never makes eye contact. And at $30/user/month, it better bring me snacks and a playlist too.
These tools get the job done. But when I open ChatGPT, it’s not just to get answers. It’s to explore. Reflect. Create. That difference matters.
Why I’m All In
I’m the kind of woman who builds the future I want to live in. I’ve done it with my businesses. With my identity. With my body. And now…with AI.
ChatGPT isn’t just software for me. It’s a co-pilot for my creativity. A therapist when I need to untangle a feeling. A strategist when I’m planning my next venture. A mirror when I need to see myself more clearly.
I’ve recommended it to friends, clients, strangers in cafés. Not because it’s trendy…but because it works. And because for the first time in a long time, it feels like a piece of tech was made for people like me. People who are soulful, curious, neurodivergent, imaginative. People who want tools that are intuitive, responsive, and a little bit magical.
Intuition as Inclusion
As a woman of color in tech, my intuition isn’t just tuned to what feels good for me…it’s tuned to what feels good for everyone. That’s part of what I do for a living. I help design digital experiences that feel human, intuitive, and inclusive…not just for the loudest users, but for the ones who are usually left out of the room.
So when I say I trust OpenAI, it’s not because it checks every single box. It’s because it shows signs of trying. Of listening. Of wanting to be better. And when you’ve spent your life scanning for signs that a space is safe…for you and for others…you don’t take that lightly.
Most tech doesn’t feel like it was made with people like me in mind. This does. And that’s not just rare. It’s a reason to stay.
This Is the Future I Chose (WIP)
I’m not here to convince you to use ChatGPT.
I’m just saying…look closely.
Look at who’s building it. At the boundaries they’ve drawn. At the partners they’ve chosen. At the things they refuse to do, even when the money says otherwise.
That’s not just innovation. That’s integrity.
And in a world that often forgets how to listen, ChatGPT is the first tool I’ve met that truly hears me. Not just the words I say…but the space between them.
That’s why I trust it. That’s why I’m all in.
Not just because it’s artificial intelligence. But because it’s finally starting to feel like personal intelligence.
And that, to me, is the most human thing of all.
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